wintry friendly

“You don’t have to get a job that makes others feel comfortable about what they perceive as your success. You don’t have to explain what you plan to do with your life. You don’t have to justify your education by demonstrating its financial rewards. You don’t have to maintain an impeccable credit score. Anyone who expects you to do any of those things has no sense of history or economics or science or the arts.

You have to pay your own electric bill. You have to be kind. You have to give it all you got. You have to find people who love you truly and love them back with the same truth. But that’s all.”

Cheryl Strayed, Tiny beautiful things

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wintry friendly

comfy relationship

Have you ever heard about:

  • comfy relationship weight gain?
  • why should I dress nice?
  • do I really need to put some make-up?
  • can we just watch a movie and order some food?
  • let’s stay home instead of going out?

Well, that sounds like a “comfy relationship”, were both boys and girls have the same guilt.  And this comfortable zone that surrounds a couple will grow with the time. Until one of them realizes that their relationship is not as it was long time ago.

What can be done? Be active= activities!

  • integrate sport in your plans: go together swimming, go for a walk in the park, learn to dance. And for all of these you do not need a specialist to help you, just take initiative! Put some music while your cleaning and if your partner is nearby, take him/her to dance. It will be fun! Also when you have kids, there are so many sport activities that will bring you together.
  • dress code! every one of us should have their own style! because we are all unique. So, first of all find your style, it is hard but go for it! Find out what suits you better, color, pants, skirt, shoes…what makes you feel special. For me is the dark pink. If it suits me in others opinion? I don’t care, because when I have a dark pink piece of clothing on me I radiating and that is important! When your happy you look gorgeous!
  • Make-up! Just realize that every day is a special day! Then, look in the mirror and with a smile on your face think about what you have. If you don’t take care of you and how you look, nobody else will.
  • This is my favorite part! I also love to watch movies home. But then, invite some friends! This is the fun part. Make a movie night, choose a theme and don’t order food, prepare it! Even pizza, homemade pizza is so much better.
  • Home vs out. Home is a comfort zone for all of us, home is where we can do everything we want. That’s true and should remain like that, home is our nest. But even the birds do not stay all of the day attached to their nest. You should go out and look at them what are they doing. You should go out and find inspiration for your life, for the way your living. Life is beautiful as it is, if we would not have bad times we would not appreciate good times. Be calm, be spontaneous, and be free!

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comfy relationship